Posted by
Virginia Daddy on Thursday, October 06, 2011 12:02:15 PM
Its been a long time since I have regularly posted here, though I have been hoping for some time to do so. The last three years, for those who have followed me for a long time, know that I just finished a long three years of school. Certainly, the pressures of law school played heavily on that, and then I took the bar in July. No fun, to be sure, and a distraction from most areas of everyday life. My wife, a few years ago, had to tell me about Bernie Madoff, and there are several other issues I have had to catch up on after the even took place. But as I return to 'normalcy' I am stunned at the dearth of just wacky ideas that are out there, and how many people actually buy into them. Some of this surprise may be my new education, but I think most of it is simply common sense. Regardless, I think it is clear that far too many people simply don't think.
I have been doing some looking around in recent weeks, months, and years, going to places like DailyKos, Media Matters, Real Clear Politics, and several other political sources, not all on my side, and even coming back to Townhall I see it a bit, too (mostly on the main discussion boards). What I see is pure lunacy-- unthoughtful arguments, debates simply to destroy the other side, shouting matches, and pure unbridled bigotry. Yes, I said bigotry, and I do not say it lightly. Rather, it is a very serious word that needs to be used sparingly and carefully. I hope I am doing so here, but use it to suggest that folks have very little interest in seeing the truth through the trees and understanding another's argument. They do this when it matters most-- when serious items are put on the table, like charges of racism or other forms of discrimination. These are not the only issues where folks lose their wits, but they provide a good study of the topic.
Now, specifically, I came across an article by Melissa Perry-Harris last week about how white liberals are racist for abandoning President Obama. It can be found here:
http://www.thenation.com/article/163544/black-president-double-standard-why-white-liberals-are-abandoning-obama. She then, foolishly, wrote a follow up to that called the "Epistomology of Race Talk," found here:
http://www.thenation.com/blog/163629/epistemology-race-talk. Why do I focus on these? Because the comments have shown a large number of people who do one of two things: either unquestionningly approve of her stance or flat out call conservatives racist simply for being conservative. Now, to go into some more depth on her position, in her first article, she essentially does what I say she does-- concludes white liberals are racist for not fully backing Obama now after backing him during the election. For the second, she attempts to defend her position in her first by addressing what she calls three common responses to the non-racist claims made by white liberals-- prove that they are racist, they have white friends, and who made her an expert. These are all poorly supported, and to be fair, many liberals, even a few blacks, call her out on them. But nonetheless, they exist and she has quite a large group of supporters-- enough for me to conclude a lot of people are simply not thinking.
Now, taking this idea that all people are racist who disapprove of Obama as an example, many ideas are simply dangerous. Such a position helps no one, does it? Her credibility was hurt, and she deepened the divide between whites and blacks, even though her intent was to apparently wake up whites to their supposed racism, which, she thinks will lessen racism in this country. However, she has only made race all the more palpable in public discourse. In other words, she has not made us forget about race but focus on it all the more. While I think that is partly her aim, that is not my purpose in writing about her posittion. My purpose is simply to say that she is only deepening the divide in race politics today. If a post racial society is what people truly want, these kinds of positions do not get us there.
And this brings me back to my main point: people, even the supposed intellectuals and experts, simply don't think. They react, and they react without full consideration of the consequences of what they say. When someone comes out and calls another a racist for not liking Obama, what's the other person going to say? Or, if someone says that because one is a member of the Tea Party that person is by default a racist, what's the Tea Party member going to say? Conservatives are not completely innocent of this themselves, but I do think it is far more prevelant on the left. And the result is a nasty situation where it becomes impossible to communicate effectively.
What's worse, the name calling is lazy. Its evidence that someone has no other argument to back up their position. By golly, somone does not like homosexuality so that person must be a bigot. The very position suggestst that there are no other options out there: you don't like my position, you absolutely have to be narrow minded and a bigot. This is a scary trend, because its shows an absolute failure of our populace to actually think. Its also the very definition of bigotry in itself, which is why I used the word above. Its also scary because of the hypocritical nature of these people, which is far and widespread. Its indicative of a very self centered society that cannot see or understand that it is not only OK for people to disagree but natural for people to disagree.
Yet, here we are. We live in a society that not only does not attack the nature of these people, but accepts and promotes it. We live in a society that will self destruct unless cooler heads prevail, unless people actually stop and think. What should we think about then? Well, we should stop and think that we all have a position and a belief and reason why. We should stop and think that calling someone a name simply because they do not agree with us is counter-productive. We should stop and think about how what we say and what we do actually has consequences beyond what we may think. We also stop and think about what our ultimate goal is. Almost universally, the ultimate goal is a society where people live together as peacefully as possible. This is as true in conservatism as it is in liberalism. The differences in what this looks like to either side should not be minimized, but that the broad statement is virtually identical should not be ignored, either.
There are serious issues that need to be discussed, like the balooning size of the federal government, the money it takes to fund this government, high numbers of people out of work, inner cities that get worse not better, rural towns falling down, moral issues that get to the heart of who we are as a society, and a host of other issues that are not named here. We need to act like grown ups and actually talk about them with cool heads. I am not suggesting that we compromise. The point is not to suggest everyone coming together to sing around a campfire holding hands. No, we should stick to our principals and what we believe. But shouting and ignoring the other side is not going to help, just as compromise for compromise sake is not going to help.
Somewhere along the line we, as a society, have stopped thinking, and listening. Listening is a part of thinking, because it requires understanding. There are probably a million reasons why this is-- our education now focusing on feelings rather than basics; a general shift in the idea of what is right and what is wrong; a new never-before seen access to all kinds of information and ideas; no one to hold anyone accountable; technology to do virtually everything for us; and more. We've been taught that we don't need to think-- only that what we think is right. This is not thinking, though, this is laziness and selfishness. We need to relearn the art of thinking, or our inability to do so will destroy not just our nation but our society and way of life.